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<generator>Blogsmith http://www.blogsmith.com/</generator><item><title>Red Bull gives you...  heart problems?</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/17/red-bull-gives-you-heart-problems/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/17/red-bull-gives-you-heart-problems/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/17/red-bull-gives-you-heart-problems/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/medical-conditions/" rel="tag">Medical conditions</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/mealtime/" rel="tag">Mealtime</a></p><a href="http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Image:Red_Bull_250mL_Can.jpg"><img width="200" vspace="4" hspace="4" height="150" border="0" align="right" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/08/red_bull_250ml_can_credit-selefant.jpg"  alt="Two cans of Red Bull with 24-can tray as background" /></a>Red Bull, the popular energy drink may give you wings in more ways than one -- <a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/health/article4537831.ece">according to an Australian study</a>, they might get you a harp as well and a new, fluffy home in the clouds. Researchers found that even one can of sugar-free Red Bull appears to make blood more "sticky," increasing the risk of blood clots.<br /><br />"After one can it seemed to turn the young individual into one with more of the type of profile you would expect to see with someone with cardiovascular disease," said Scott Willoughby, of the Cardiovascular Research Centre at the Royal Adelaide Hospital and Adelaide University. "People who already have existing cardiovascular disease may want to talk to their physician before they drink Red Bull in future."<br /><br />"The study does not show effects which would go beyond that of drinking a cup of coffee," says Red Bull spokeswoman Linda Rychter. "Therefore, the reported results were to be expected and lie within the normal physiological range." Some of students that participated in the study said they drink as many as eight cans of Red Bull a night when they want to stay awake to study; the cans already warn customers not to drink more than two a day.<br /><br />Although the study was done with college students, I know that a lot of high school students -- and kids even younger -- drink Red Bull. It might be worthwhile to talk to them to make sure they don't drink too much.<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/health/article4537831.ece>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/17/red-bull-gives-you-heart-problems/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1286761/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/17/red-bull-gives-you-heart-problems/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>caffeine</category><category>coffee</category><category>energy drink</category><category>energy drinks</category><category>EnergyDrink</category><category>EnergyDrinks</category><category>red bull</category><category>RedBull</category><category>taurine</category><dc:creator>Roger Sinasohn</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-08-17T13:01:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Need a lift to the bar? Just ask your kids.</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/16/need-a-lift-to-the-bar-just-ask-your-kids/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/16/need-a-lift-to-the-bar-just-ask-your-kids/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/16/need-a-lift-to-the-bar-just-ask-your-kids/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/behaving-badly/" rel="tag">Behaving badly</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="1" align="right" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/08/bar_scene_21.png" alt="" />Returning home from my company picnic yesterday, with my two thirteen-year-old nieces with me, I jokingly asked if either of them had their driver's license so that they could drive at least some of the way home and I could take a nap. (Neither one did, of course, and, really, I was just kidding.) In Texas, though, that's not something they kid about.<br /><br />Police officers in the East Texas town of Longview noticed a minivan turn into a driveway and bump into the house.
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Investigating, they found <a href="http://www.boston.com/news/odd/articles/2008/08/15/texas_police_say_12_year_old_girl_drove_mom_to_bar/">a twelve-year-old girl behind the wheel</a>. She told the officers that she had just driven her mother to a bar. Upon checking at the pub, they indeed found thirty-five-year-old Jennifer Lynn Rosenberg who admitted to having her daughter drive her there. <br /><br />On the one hand, you have to give Rosenberg credit for not wanting to risk drinking and driving, but on the other hand... Perhaps it would be best if she just stayed away from the bars altogether. In the meantime, Child Protective Services is looking into the situation.<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.boston.com/news/odd/articles/2008/08/15/texas_police_say_12_year_old_girl_drove_mom_to_bar/>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/16/need-a-lift-to-the-bar-just-ask-your-kids/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1286401/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/16/need-a-lift-to-the-bar-just-ask-your-kids/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>alcohol</category><category>alcoholism</category><category>bar</category><category>car</category><category>drinking</category><category>driving</category><category>minivan</category><category>pub</category><dc:creator>Roger Sinasohn</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-08-16T17:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Gangs getting new members due to missing role models</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/10/gangs-getting-new-members-due-to-missing-role-models/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/10/gangs-getting-new-members-due-to-missing-role-models/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/10/gangs-getting-new-members-due-to-missing-role-models/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/development/" rel="tag">Development</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/extreme-childhood/" rel="tag">Extreme childhood</a></p><img width="240" vspace="4" hspace="4" height="180" border="0" align="right" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/08/pic108476953320.jpg"  alt="Gang graffiti in New York City's lower east side" />In what shouldn't surprise anyone who has thought even the least bit about these sorts of issues, a lack of positive role models in their lives is <a href="http://www.reuters.com/article/lifestyleMolt/idUSL814658520080808">leading to gang membership</a> for many British kids, according to the Prince's Trust, an organization that works with young adults. According to a survey, the group found that kids were turning to their peers for support because they felt there were no adults they could turn to.<br /><br />"All the threads that hold a community together -- a common identity, role models, a sense of safety -- were given by young people as motivations to join gangs," said Martina Milburn, chief executive of The Trust. A third of the youth surveyed said they did not have a parent they considered a role model and nearly a quarter of kids in gangs joined in order to find a role model.<br /><br />Still, it's not all bad news for the UK. Less than one in ten kids admitted to having been part of a gang (although one wonders how many serious gang members fill out surveys). Even the nine percent reported, however, seems too high and should serve as a reminder to parents how very important it is not only to be involved with and available to their kids but to set a good and proper example as well. I know that's something at which I certainly need to work harder.<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.reuters.com/article/lifestyleMolt/idUSL814658520080808>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/10/gangs-getting-new-members-due-to-missing-role-models/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1280322/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/08/10/gangs-getting-new-members-due-to-missing-role-models/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>britain</category><category>england</category><category>gang</category><category>gangs</category><category>princes trust</category><category>PrincesTrust</category><category>role models</category><category>RoleModels</category><dc:creator>Roger Sinasohn</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-08-10T12:55:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Children See -- Parents as role models </title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/18/children-see-parents-as-role-models/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/18/children-see-parents-as-role-models/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/18/children-see-parents-as-role-models/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/just-for-moms/" rel="tag">Just for moms</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/just-for-dads/" rel="tag">Just for dads</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p>We've all seen it -- a child says something wildly inappropriate and shocks the adults around her.  Her parents shake their heads, "We don't know where she gets this stuff."  It's happened to me, and because my kids spend nearly all day, every day with me alone, I can't look much farther than my own behavior.  <br /><br />I think that most, if not all, parents slip now and then -- a curse word slips out, voices get raised, carefully honed parenting techniques fly out the window in the face of fatigue and stress.  Kids are resilient, they learn that grown ups make mistakes just like kids do.  And we try harder not to make those mistakes the next time.<br /><br />An Australian organization called <a href="http://childfriendly.org/">ChildFriendly.org</a> recently put out a children's rights video titled "Children See."  It depicts parents at their worst -- abusive, violent, careless, angry -- as well as their children following their lead. It's disconcerting, disturbing, startling, but it's also an excellent reminder for even the most thoughtful parent that our children are watching us, every minute of every day.  <br /><br />Watch the video below, then share your thoughts with us in comments.<br /><br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/En-cJqmSjFY&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/En-cJqmSjFY&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=En-cJqmSjFY>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/18/children-see-parents-as-role-models/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1257946/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/18/children-see-parents-as-role-models/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>abuse</category><category>australia</category><category>child abuse</category><category>ChildAbuse</category><category>childfriendly.org</category><category>children see</category><category>childrens rights</category><category>ChildrenSee</category><category>ChildrensRights</category><category>domestic violence</category><category>DomesticViolence</category><category>parenting</category><category>parenting role model</category><category>parenting techniques</category><category>ParentingRoleModel</category><category>ParentingTechniques</category><dc:creator>Bethany Sanders</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-07-18T18:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Family Ties kid all grown up and getting in trouble</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/17/family-ties-kid-all-grown-up-and-getting-in-trouble/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/17/family-ties-kid-all-grown-up-and-getting-in-trouble/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/17/family-ties-kid-all-grown-up-and-getting-in-trouble/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/celeb-kids/" rel="tag">Celeb kids</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/behaving-badly/" rel="tag">Behaving badly</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In the news</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="0" align="right" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/07/familytiessm.jpg"  alt="Family Ties cast" />Last year, former <em>Family Ties</em> actor Brian Bonsall <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2007/09/04/former-family-ties-actor-guilty-of-assault/" target="_blank">made headlines</a> when he was arrested and convicted of third degree assault.  You may remember Bonsall as Michael J. Fox's little brother, Andy, on the popular 1980's sitcom.  After his conviction last year, the now 26-year-old Boulder, Colorado resident was sentenced to two years' probation for pouring a drink on his girlfriend, grabbing her in a choke-hold and throwing her down on the bed when she tried to leave.  Nice.<br /><br />Today, he's <a href="http://www.dailycamera.com/news/2008/jul/16/family-ties-actor-fails-appear-court/" target="_blank">back in the headlines</a> for failing to abide by the terms of his probation.  He is accused of not paying for his court-ordered domestic-violence classes, missing his daily alcohol checks and testing positive for at least one breathalyzer test that he did take.  But it gets worse.  He was due in court yesterday to face those charges and failed to show.  The judge in the case is expected to issue a warrant for his arrest today.<br /><br />Sadly, a former child star getting in trouble isn't all that unusual.  But what really gets me is the <a href="http://www.dailycamera.com/news/2008/jul/16/family-ties-actor-fails-appear-court/" target="_blank">photos</a> that accompany the article.  From sweet-faced little boy to rough-looking criminal, it is enough to break any parent's heart.<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.thedenverchannel.com/news/16897713/detail.html#>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/17/family-ties-kid-all-grown-up-and-getting-in-trouble/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1259092/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/17/family-ties-kid-all-grown-up-and-getting-in-trouble/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>brian bonsall</category><category>BrianBonsall</category><category>celebrity kids</category><category>CelebrityKids</category><category>child star</category><category>child stars</category><category>ChildStar</category><category>ChildStars</category><category>family ties</category><category>FamilyTies</category><category>former child star</category><category>FormerChildStar</category><dc:creator>Sandy Maple</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-07-17T18:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Coffee makes infertility worse</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/09/coffee-makes-infertility-worse/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/09/coffee-makes-infertility-worse/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/09/coffee-makes-infertility-worse/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/just-for-moms/" rel="tag">Just for moms</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/pregnancy-and-birth/" rel="tag">Pregnancy &amp; birth</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/eating-and-nutrition/" rel="tag">Eating &amp; nutrition</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><img width="200" vspace="4" hspace="4" height="150" border="0" align="right" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/07/handscoffee3_xenia.jpg"  alt="" />For women undergoing IVF, it may be wise to cut out the coffee to increase the chance of getting pregnant. A study suggests that <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7494249.stm">drinking upwards of four cups of coffee</a> leads to being 26% less likely to conceive. The study followed 9,000 women who underwent IVF to see if they subsequently got pregnant naturally. The heavy coffee drinkers were significantly less likely to get pregnant than those who abstained from coffee.<br /><br />It's not just coffee either. Alcohol, as few as three times a week, had the same effect as coffee. Smoking, even just one cigarette a day, and being overweight reduced the chances of getting pregnant even further. This doesn't necessarily mean, however, that if you want to get pregnant, you need to cut out everything in order to do so. "Whilst the results of this study are interesting," said Fiona Ford, of the Centre for Pregnancy Nutrition, "there are evidently limitations to these findings as post IVF patients are a selective group who have already experienced problems with conception."<br /><br />Personally, if I were trying to get pregnant, I think I'd do everything I could to maximize my chances. Giving up coffee, alcohol, and cigarettes seems like a good place to start.<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7494249.stm>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/09/coffee-makes-infertility-worse/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1249738/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/09/coffee-makes-infertility-worse/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>alcohol</category><category>caffeine</category><category>coffee</category><category>fertility</category><category>fertility treatments</category><category>FertilityTreatments</category><category>infertility</category><category>ivf</category><category>pregnancy</category><dc:creator>Roger Sinasohn</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-07-09T15:02:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Summer jobs can lead to drug experimentation</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/01/summer-jobs-can-lead-to-drug-experimentation/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/01/summer-jobs-can-lead-to-drug-experimentation/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/01/summer-jobs-can-lead-to-drug-experimentation/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="0" align="right" alt="" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/06/nodrugssm.jpg" />According to Drug Free America, summer can mean more than swimming, sunning and shopping for some teenagers. June, July and August are also the months in which teens are <a target="_blank" href="http://www.wlwt.com/news/16742112/detail.html">more likely to try marijuana</a> for the first time. And as much as parents might want their kids get a job and do something useful with themselves, working actually increases the chances that they will experiment with drugs. Not only does a summer job expose them to older - but not old enough to know better - coworkers, they also have all that extra cash to spread around.<br /><br />Now, I would not take that bit of information and decide that my teen isn't leaving the house until September, but any parent of a teen should be aware of the warning signs of drug use. Some are easy to spot (red, glassy eyes), while others are hard to distinguish from regular teen behavior (mood swings). <a target="_blank" href="http://www.theantidrug.com/EI/detailed_signs.asp">Parents, The Anti Drug</a> has great information with detailed signs and symptoms of drug use.<br /><br />Perhaps the best advice I ever got for raising a drug-free teen was this: don't take your eyes off of them until they are 21. Seriously, the teen years are not the time to relax and assume your work is done. As grown up as they seem and as ready as you may be for them to actually <em>be</em> grown up, they are still kids. Most teens are far from ready to face the challenges of peer pressure, curiosity and plain old rebellion on their own. Arm yourself with knowledge and stay close at hand.<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.wlwt.com/news/16742112/detail.html>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/01/summer-jobs-can-lead-to-drug-experimentation/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1241100/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/07/01/summer-jobs-can-lead-to-drug-experimentation/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>anti drug</category><category>AntiDrug</category><category>drug experimentation</category><category>drug use</category><category>DrugExperimentation</category><category>drugs</category><category>DrugUse</category><category>marijuana</category><category>marijuana drugs</category><category>marijuana use</category><category>MarijuanaDrugs</category><category>MarijuanaUse</category><category>parents</category><category>summer job</category><category>SummerJob</category><category>teens</category><category>working</category><dc:creator>Sandy Maple</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-07-01T09:05:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>News flash: Kids get alcohol from adults!</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/27/news-flash-kids-get-alcohol-from-adults/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/27/news-flash-kids-get-alcohol-from-adults/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/27/news-flash-kids-get-alcohol-from-adults/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><img width="200" vspace="4" hspace="4" height="267" border="0" align="right" alt="" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/06/294887_drink.jpg" />A study released Thursday by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration has news that shouldn't surprise any of us: <a href="http://news.aol.com/story/_a/study-many-teens-get-alcohol-from-adults/n20080626000409990009">kids who engage in underage drinking most often get their booze from adults</a>, typically their own parents or their friends' parents. <br /><br />The study consisted of a random sample of 158,000 kids aged 12 to 20 who were questioned about their drinking behaviors.  Researchers found that 40 percent of teens reported receiving alcohol for free from an adult in the past 30 days, and that one in 16 got the drinks from a parent or guardian, while one in four said the provider was an unrelated adult. One in 12 were being served by an adult family member who was not their parent.<br /><br />And of course, some kids -- about four percent -- reported that they simply helped themselves to alcohol in their homes.<br /><br />Surgeon General Steven K. Galson holds the grown ups responsible for all this underage drinking. "In far too many instances parents directly enable their children's underage drinking -- in essence encouraging them to risk their health and well-being," he says. "Proper parental guidance alone may not be the complete solution to this devastating public health problem -- but it is a critical part."<br /><br />What makes a few kids swiping some beers from the garage fridge a "devastating public health problem?" How about this: one out of five kids surveyed said that they had taken part in binge drinking during the previous month.  A binge is defined as consuming five or more drinks on one occasion.  Half of kids participating in the survey reported drinking in someone else's home, while a third said they were drinking in their own houses; a smaller number, less than ten percent, were in a bar or club.<br /><br />What can you do to keep your kids from becoming a statistic? Model good drinking behavior at home, for starters. Know your children's friends and their parents. And don't be afraid to say no and stick to it.<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/27/news-flash-kids-get-alcohol-from-adults/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1237988/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/27/news-flash-kids-get-alcohol-from-adults/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>alcohol</category><category>binge drinking</category><category>binge-drinking</category><category>BingeDrinking</category><category>teen drinking</category><category>TeenDrinking</category><category>teens drinking</category><category>TeensDrinking</category><category>underage</category><category>underage drinking</category><category>UnderageDrinking</category><dc:creator>Susan Wagner</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-06-27T13:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Pregnant woman called "hero" after chasing down drunk driver</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/25/pregnant-woman-called-hero-after-chasing-down-drunk-driver/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/25/pregnant-woman-called-hero-after-chasing-down-drunk-driver/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/25/pregnant-woman-called-hero-after-chasing-down-drunk-driver/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In the news</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/weird-but-true/" rel="tag">Weird but true</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><a href="http://flickr.com/photos/fernando/21613702/"><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="0" align="right" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/06/21613702_69bb31f2df.jpg" alt="" /></a>When you're a parent, the instinct to protect your child is sometimes overwhelming. When my husband stumbled on our concrete porch steps with our older daughter, then just an infant, they both fell... hard. He ended up with scrapes and bruises. She was completely unharmed and even giggled when they landed. I don't know how he did it, but in those short seconds he managed to turn his body just right to keep her safe, even if it meant that he took the brunt of the fall. <br /><br />Maybe it was her pregnancy that put Amanda Bourque's "mama bear" instincts into overdrive. When a drunk driver narrowly missed hitting her car, Bourque decided that she <a href="http://www.canada.com/calgaryherald/news/story.html?id=3cf1e28b-a321-4907-98cf-0c6e79a54415">needed to do something before someone got hurt</a>. So she followed the weaving driver into a convenience store parking lot, where he smashed into a wall and another car before Bourque finally cornered him with her own vehicle. <br /><br />Bourque's being called a hero and will be nominated for a public service award. Though many people would have called 911 in the same situation, to actually pin down the driver until help arrived definitely took some guts.<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.canada.com/calgaryherald/news/story.html?id=3cf1e28b-a321-4907-98cf-0c6e79a54415>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/25/pregnant-woman-called-hero-after-chasing-down-drunk-driver/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1222412/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/25/pregnant-woman-called-hero-after-chasing-down-drunk-driver/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>drunk driver</category><category>drunk driving</category><category>DrunkDriver</category><category>DrunkDriving</category><category>hero</category><category>instincts</category><category>mama bear</category><category>MamaBear</category><category>pregnant</category><category>pregnant women traps drunk driver</category><category>PregnantWomenTrapsDrunkDriver</category><dc:creator>Bethany Sanders</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-06-25T13:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>PD*Poll: Are you afraid to chaperone?</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/19/pd-poll-are-you-afraid-to-chaperone/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/19/pd-poll-are-you-afraid-to-chaperone/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/19/pd-poll-are-you-afraid-to-chaperone/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In the news</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/childcare/" rel="tag">Childcare</a></p><p><img alt="" hspace="4" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/06/liability.jpg" align="right" vspace="4" /></p>
<p>After a recent <a href="http://www.comcast.net/articles/news-national/20080617/parents.chaperone.fear/">verdict</a>, many parents in Maui, Hawaii and elsewhere in the US certainly are. Nearly $700,000 was awarded to the parents of Lauren Crossan, an eighteen-year-old who fell to her death from a Maui hotel room. The teen, who was in town with chaperone Susanne Sadler, Susanne's daughter and another teen, was seen drinking alcohol within hours of reaching the hotel. </p>
<p>An arbitrator ordered Sadler to pay $690,000 to Crossan's family after finding the chaperone partially responsible for the girl's death. </p>
<p>Some schools are so concerned over getting into this kind of trouble that they're going so far as to purchase liability insurance. Some parents are considering it as well. Others feel that it's simply the American way to sue rather than accept responsibility for actions. And some fall in between: A lawyer representing the Crossan family, who has represented many such families whose children have been harmed in the care of other parents, basically said that crappy parenting leads to problems. </p>
<p>What do you think? Is it ridiculous for parents to consider purchasing liability insurance to cover themselves when children who are not their own find their way into their care, or is it just a sign of the times?</p>
<p><p><a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/19/pd-poll-are-you-afraid-to-chaperone/#poll15756">View Poll</a></p></p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.comcast.net/articles/news-national/20080617/parents.chaperone.fear/>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/19/pd-poll-are-you-afraid-to-chaperone/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1228590/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/19/pd-poll-are-you-afraid-to-chaperone/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>alcohol</category><category>chaperone</category><category>hawaii</category><category>hotel room</category><category>HotelRoom</category><category>insurance</category><category>lauren crossan</category><category>LaurenCrossan</category><category>liability</category><category>liability insurance</category><category>LiabilityInsurance</category><category>maui</category><category>parents</category><category>pd-poll</category><category>school</category><category>Susanne sadler</category><category>SusanneSadler</category><dc:creator>Jennifer Jordan</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-06-19T13:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>PD*Poll: Did one school's DWI program goes too far?</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/14/pd-poll-did-one-schools-dwi-program-goes-too-far/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/14/pd-poll-did-one-schools-dwi-program-goes-too-far/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/14/pd-poll-did-one-schools-dwi-program-goes-too-far/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/schools/" rel="tag">Education</a></p><a href="http://flickr.com/photos/mikekline/639489472/?addedcomment=1#comment72157605603231018"><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="0" align="right" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/06/639489472_83e0cecad1.jpg" alt="" /></a>Administrators and teachers at a California high school recently announced to their students that several teens had been killed in car wrecks over the weekend. It was devastating news that traumatized students, many of whom had lost good friends. <br /><br />The problem? <a href="http://news.aol.com/story/_a/school-defends-car-wrecks-hoax/20080612163009990001">It was a big, fat lie.</a><br /><br />Administrators came up with the program to discourage teens from drinking and driving.. The plan was to tell students about the accidents in the morning, then reveal the hoax at an assembly in the afternoon.<br />Only some students became <em>so</em> upset (and rightfully so), that teachers had to tell them immediately that there was no accident. So for the entire day, rumors were spreading that it was true/wasn't true, and many students didn't really understand until the missing students arrived back at class.<br /><br />Some students are protesting the schools actions, saying they feel betrayed and that the school played with their emotions. Administrators are adamant, however, that the program was meant to save lives, not to traumatize the children.<br /><br />I have to wonder, however, if the roles were reversed if school administrators would feel the same way. Imagine if you worked in a large corporation and the CEO came in and told you that several co-workers had died in [name your traumatic even here] over the weekend, then revealed hours later that it was just a hoax to encourage workplace safety. You can bet there would be be some litigation going on for emotional trauma. <br /><br />What do you think? Did the school go to far? Or are there no limits on what should be done to protect teens from their own actions?<br /><br /><a href="#poll15610" /></a><div class="poll" id="poll15610_div"><form method="post" name="poll15610-form" id="poll15610-form" onSubmit="pollVote('15610','');return false;"><p>Did this DWI program go too far?</p><fieldset><label for="poll15610-15611" class="alt"><input type="radio" value="15611" name="poll" id="poll15610-15611">Yes! Teens should not be traumatized to teach them a lesson.</label><label for="poll15610-15612" class=""><input type="radio" value="15612" name="poll" id="poll15610-15612">No! Drunk driving is a major problem that needs extreme measures.</label><label for="poll15610-15613" class="alt"><input type="radio" value="15613" name="poll" id="poll15610-15613">Other -- share with us in comments.</label><button type="submit" id="pollsubmit-15610">Vote</button></fieldset></form></div><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://news.aol.com/story/_a/school-defends-car-wrecks-hoax/20080612163009990001>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/14/pd-poll-did-one-schools-dwi-program-goes-too-far/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1225508/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/14/pd-poll-did-one-schools-dwi-program-goes-too-far/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>drinking</category><category>drugs</category><category>drunk driving</category><category>drunk driving accident</category><category>drunk driving prevention</category><category>DrunkDriving</category><category>DrunkDrivingAccident</category><category>DrunkDrivingPrevention</category><category>prevention</category><category>teens</category><category>teens and drunk driving</category><category>TeensAndDrunkDriving</category><dc:creator>Bethany Sanders</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-06-14T16:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Baby born 15x's over legal limit</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/baby-born-15xs-over-legal-limit/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/baby-born-15xs-over-legal-limit/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/baby-born-15xs-over-legal-limit/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/newborns/" rel="tag">Newborns</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/pregnancy-and-birth/" rel="tag">Pregnancy &amp; birth</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/development/" rel="tag">Development</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/behaving-badly/" rel="tag">Behaving badly</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><p><img alt="" hspace="4" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/06/drunkbaby.jpg" align="right" vspace="4" border="0" />There are few greater causes for celebration than a brand new baby, but one Polish mother started her celebrating a bit early, <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,365102,00.html">showing up at the delivery room with a blood alcohol level of 0.12</a>, which would be the equivalent of drinking an entire bottle of wine.</p>
<p>At birth, the baby's blood alcohol level was 0.29, a level she should not even be close to attaining until <em>well</em> into her college years. The drunk mother could face up to five years in prison because of the celebration (or self-medication, whichever the case might be) for child endangerment. </p>
<p>I've known several people who drank before they even knew they were pregnant and the guilt over possibly harming the development of fetus they didn't realize was there was crushing. I can't imagine purposely getting drunk knowing full well that the baby is partaking everything you are. </p>
<p>Doctors say so far the baby appears fine and I hope for the child's sake she suffers no ill effects from her mother's poor judgment. </p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,365102,00.html>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/baby-born-15xs-over-legal-limit/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1222383/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/baby-born-15xs-over-legal-limit/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>alcohol and pregnancy</category><category>AlcoholAndPregnancy</category><category>baby born drunk</category><category>baby born over legal limit</category><category>BabyBornDrunk</category><category>BabyBornOverLegalLimit</category><category>drinking and birthing</category><category>drinking while pregnant</category><category>DrinkingAndBirthing</category><category>DrinkingWhilePregnant</category><dc:creator>Angie Felton</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-06-11T14:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Lionel has some fun at Nicole's expense</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/lionel-has-some-fun-at-nicoles-expense/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/lionel-has-some-fun-at-nicoles-expense/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/lionel-has-some-fun-at-nicoles-expense/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/newborns/" rel="tag">Newborns</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/just-for-dads/" rel="tag">Just for dads</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/celeb-kids/" rel="tag">Celeb kids</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/life-and-style/" rel="tag">Life &amp; style</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/celeb-parenting/" rel="tag">Celeb parenting</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/behaving-badly/" rel="tag">Behaving badly</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In the news</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/thats-entertainment/" rel="tag">That's entertainment</a></p><p> </p>
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<p>Music legend Lionel Richie recently had a little <a href="http://news.aol.com/story/_a/lionel-richie-says-life-with-daughter/n20080609082909990012">fun</a> at his daughter, Nicole Richie's, expense. The singer was speaking at the TV Land Awards where he was being honored with the Icon Award when he had a few words to say about Ms. Richie.</p>
<p>Said Lionel: "Forget about surviving 40 years in the music business. Just surviving 27 and 1/2 years of Nicole Richie has been a struggle and a half." Richie went on to say he was a survivor for all the parents out there. </p>
<p>Nicole got her first shot at fame as Paris Hilton's sidekick in Fox television's The Simple Life. She later made more of a notorious name for herself spending time in jail (all of 82 minutes) after a conviction for driving under the influence of drugs. You may recall she was pulled over after rambling down a one-way street the wrong way. Now Nicole is known more for her three-month-old daughter Harlow than she is for her hard-partying ways. I'm sure Grandpa Lionel is ultimately very proud of her for being able to turn everything around--and giving him what parents always want--a grandbaby!</p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://news.aol.com/story/_a/lionel-richie-says-life-with-daughter/n20080609082909990012>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/lionel-has-some-fun-at-nicoles-expense/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1222081/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/11/lionel-has-some-fun-at-nicoles-expense/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>awards</category><category>expire-images2009-6-11</category><category>grandbaby</category><category>grandpa</category><category>harlow</category><category>lionel richie</category><category>lionel-richie</category><category>LionelRichie</category><category>nicole richie</category><category>nicole-richie</category><category>NicoleRichie</category><category>parents</category><category>paris hilton</category><category>paris-hilton</category><category>ParisHilton</category><category>TV Land</category><category>TvLand</category><dc:creator>Jennifer Jordan</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-06-11T10:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>PD*Poll: Teens sentenced to poetry classes</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/04/teens-sentenced-to-poetry-classes/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/04/teens-sentenced-to-poetry-classes/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/04/teens-sentenced-to-poetry-classes/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="1" align="right" alt="" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/06/vermontsm.jpg" />For the drunken teens who trashed poet Robert Frost's former home in Ripton Vermont last December, justice has been served in a rather unusual way. As you may recall, a former Middlebury college student threw an impromptu party at the historical farmhouse last year and things got way out of control. The nearly 50 guests broke furniture and china, discharged the fire extinguishers, and ruined the carpet with the by-products of too much drink and drugs. They caused over $10,000 in damage and created quite an uproar in the small Vermont town.<br /><br />Their day of reckoning has finally arrived and their punishment goes beyond community service and public embarrassment. Twenty-five of the party-goers have been <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2008/CRIME/06/02/frost.house.ap/index.html" target="_blank">sentenced to attend a poetry class</a> where they will learn about the work of the man whose home they nearly destroyed.<br /><br />Prosecutor John Quinn explains the unusual punishment: "I guess I was thinking that if these teens had a better understanding of who Robert Frost was and his contribution to our society, that they would be more respectful of other people's property in the future and would also learn something from the experience," he says.<br /><br />The two-day session is being led by Jay Parini, a Frost biographer and college professor who was happy to donate his time for the cause. He draws on the Frost poem "The Road Not Taken" for its obvious parallels to this case. "This is where Frost is relevant. This is the irony of this whole thing. You come to a path in the woods where you can say, `Shall I go to this party and get drunk out of my mind?"' he said. "Everything in life is choices."<br /><br />I have my doubts about whether a poetry class could teach a teen about respect for the property of others. But if the professor can just get that one message across - that everything in life really is a choice - maybe these kids will learn to choose their roads more carefully.<br /><br /><p><a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/04/teens-sentenced-to-poetry-classes/#poll15243">View Poll</a></p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.cnn.com/2008/CRIME/06/02/frost.house.ap/index.html>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/04/teens-sentenced-to-poetry-classes/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1213421/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/04/teens-sentenced-to-poetry-classes/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>pd-poll</category><category>poetry classes</category><category>PoetryClasses</category><category>robert frost</category><category>RobertFrost</category><category>the road not taken</category><category>TheRoadNotTaken</category><dc:creator>Sandy Maple</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-06-04T13:03:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Former child star arrested for cocaine</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/02/former-child-star-arrested-for-cocaine/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/02/former-child-star-arrested-for-cocaine/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/02/former-child-star-arrested-for-cocaine/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/celeb-kids/" rel="tag">Celeb kids</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/life-and-style/" rel="tag">Life &amp; style</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/rumors/" rel="tag">Rumors</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/behaving-badly/" rel="tag">Behaving badly</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In the news</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><p> </p>
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<p>Tatum O'Neal, star of television's hit series Rescue Me and former child celebrity, has been <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080602/ap_on_en_mo/people_tatum_o_neal">arrested</a>. Ms. O'Neal, daughter of Ryan O'Neal and former wife of tennis champ John McEnroe, who won an Oscar for her performance in Paper Moon, was arrested in New York City for allegedly buying cocaine!</p>
<p>At her arraignment, the actress, now 44, offered no plea. She is due back in court on July 28th. O'Neal has made no small secret of her addiction problems. Recently, she reached out to another troubled young star, Britney Spears, in an effort to help turn the fallen pop starlet's life around. </p>
<p>Police allegedly found two bags of cocaine in one of O'Neal's front pockets after claiming to see her accept them from a man during a routine drug sweep. Prosecutors are recommending drug treatment rather than jail time for the star, who recounts her problems with both heroin and cocaine in a 2004 memoir titled "A Paper Life." </p>
<p>According to Perez Hilton, who always seems to know more (or claims to know more) than the average online media source, O'Neal claims she was researching the part of a junkie and not buying the cocaine for real. Perez also notes she asked the police if they knew who she was when they approached her. I don't care how good an actress she is, i don't think anyone's going to buy that story!</p>
%Gallery-24226%<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080602/ap_on_en_mo/people_tatum_o_neal>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/02/former-child-star-arrested-for-cocaine/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1212314/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/06/02/former-child-star-arrested-for-cocaine/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>a paper life</category><category>addiction</category><category>APaperLife</category><category>Britney Spears</category><category>BritneySpears</category><category>celebrity</category><category>child celebrity</category><category>ChildCelebrity</category><category>cocaine</category><category>drug</category><category>heroin</category><category>john mcenroe</category><category>JohnMcenroe</category><category>New York City</category><category>NewYorkCity</category><category>ONeal</category><category>paper moon</category><category>PaperMoon</category><category>Rescue Me</category><category>RescueMe</category><category>Ryan ONeal</category><category>RyanOneal</category><category>Tatum</category><category>tatum oneal</category><category>tatumoneal</category><category>television</category><category>tennis</category><dc:creator>Jennifer Jordan</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-06-02T21:45:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Energy drinks + teens = dangerous behavior </title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/energy-drinks-teens-dangerous-behavior/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/energy-drinks-teens-dangerous-behavior/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/energy-drinks-teens-dangerous-behavior/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/eating-and-nutrition/" rel="tag">Eating &amp; nutrition</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><p><img  hspace="4" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/05/spike.jpg" align="right" vspace="4" border="0" alt="" />As a parent, you probably suspected that energy drinks like Red Bull aren't the healthiest things for a teen.  But many look the other way when it comes to energy drinks as they are legal and a lot less harmful than a lot of other things the kids <em>could</em> be drinking.</p>
<p>It turns out there's more to energy drinks than meets the eye.  For one thing, the caffeine level varies widely from brand to brand.  While a 12 oz.  Starbucks latte provides a 75 mg of caffeine, the same amount of Amp contains 107 mg and a Spike Shooter jolts the body with 428 mg.  Students experiencing health problems after drinking energy drinks have led to schools in several states to ban the beverages. </p>
<p>But something <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/27/health/27well.htmldpc">far more troubling than hyperactivity or headaches has been observed</a> in young athletes who regularly consume energy drinks.  </p>A researcher at the University of Buffalo says that high consumption of energy drinks is associated with "toxic jock" behavior, a mixture of risky and aggressive behaviors that can include unprotected sex, substance abuse and violence.  Although energy drinks themselves are not being blamed for this behavior, energy drink usage should be a red flag to parents that their child is willing to take risks with their health.
<p>And when high schoolers turn into college students, a whole new usage for energy drinks appears: as a cocktail mixer.  Combining a caffeinated beverage with alcohol results in a wide awake drunk who is just as intoxicated, but doesn't feel it. According to a study in Academic Emergency Medicine, students who mixed energy drinks with alcohol got drunk twice as often as those who consumed plain alcohol and were more likely to be injured or require medical treatment while drinking.  Also, collaborating the "toxic jock" research, the study found energy drink mixers were more likely to be victims or perpetrators of aggressive sexual behavior.</p>
<p>When dealing with kids and energy drinks, the best defense against this problem might be a good offense. Teaching your kids from an early age to make healthy choices when it comes to eating and drinking is essential. </p>
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    <div>Lay off the soda.  Many places now offer milk or juice instead of pop with kid meals.</div>
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    <div>Plain water is healthy and a money saving selection for the entire family when eating out.    </div>
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    <div>If your child is excessively tired, consider an earlier bedtime, even if it's not cool. </div>
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    <div>Sometimes lethargy is confused with tiredness and physical activity like a brisk walk, bike ride or impromptu dance session with an Ipod can be just as effective as a Red Bull.</div>
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<p>If energy drinks have the potential to be a gateway beverage to troublesome behavior, it's good to know in order to nip the problem in the bud.  </p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/27/health/27well.html?8dpc>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/energy-drinks-teens-dangerous-behavior/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1207368/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/energy-drinks-teens-dangerous-behavior/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>caffeine and teens</category><category>CaffeineAndTeens</category><category>red bull</category><category>RedBull</category><category>teens and energy drinks</category><category>TeensAndEnergyDrinks</category><category>toxic jock syndrome</category><category>ToxicJockSyndrome</category><dc:creator>Angie Felton</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-05-27T19:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Here, honey, have a placebo; you'll feel better</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/here-honey-have-a-placebo-youll-feel-better/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/here-honey-have-a-placebo-youll-feel-better/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/here-honey-have-a-placebo-youll-feel-better/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/home-remedies/" rel="tag">Home remedies</a></p><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="0" align="right" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/05/447543_93571904post.jpg"  alt="" />Recently, we had a week where, for various reasons, we were unable to get my son's anxiety medication refilled.  He was fine, but MY anxiety level was <em>way</em> up.  A friend joking suggested that what we needed was a placebo -- you know, some pretend medication, just to keep him thinking he was taking his meds.  "It might make YOU feel better," she said knowingly.<br /><br />Studies show that in some patients, placebos can indeed reduce symptoms, particularly for things like depression, pain, and high blood pressure.  Parents also know that kids are sometimes prone to complaining about illness when really they are just fine, thanks, they just don't feel like mowing the lawn or going to Aunt Edwina's for Sunday dinner.  And some kids are just hypochondriacs, convinced that they really ARE ill with no real cause.<br /><br />According to an article in today's New York Times, Jennifer Buettner's niece was one of those kids, and her complaints got Buettner thinking.  What if she could give the niece a placebo and convincer her that she had taken medicine?  Trouble was there were no available placebo pills for kids, so <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/27/health/27plac.html?_r=1&amp;oref=slogin">Buettner created Obecalp (placebo spelled backwards)</a>, which is essentially a sugar pill.  Kid complaining about a headache?  Obecalp to the rescue!  Problem solved.<br /><br />Maybe.  Or maybe not.Experts object to placebos for children for two reasons: one is that studies of placebos use in children have shown that the placebo only works if the adult administering it ALSO thinks that the pill contains actual medicine.  In other words, if you know the pill is a fake, you will not be able to convince your ten-year-old that it will really work.<br /><br />The bigger issue, though, for medical professionals is that placebo use teaches kids that every ailment can be solved with a pill, which can impeded a child's ability to make good decisions down the road about drug use.  Jennifer Buettner, the inventor of the pediatric placebo, acknowledges this hazard, but says, "We are not promoting drug use."  She goes on to claim that the placebo pill is designed to cut down on the number of prescription drugs given to kids.  "The overprescription of drugs is a serious problem, and I think there needs to be an alternative," she says.<br /><br />Which brings me back to my son and his anxiety medication.  In the week that it took us to find a pharmacy that could fill his prescription, he was just fine, while I was a nervous wreck, worrying about what might happen if he had an anxiety attack at school, for example.  Any sort of placebo, of course, would have done more to calm <span style="font-style: italic;">my</span> fears than to actually manage my son's symptoms.  I can't help but wonder if that's really the point of a pediatric placebo: to make the parents feel better, not the child.  And to me, that doesn't seem like a good enough reason to give a kid medication, even if it is just pretend.<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/27/health/27plac.html?_r=1&amp;oref=slogin>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/here-honey-have-a-placebo-youll-feel-better/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1206609/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/27/here-honey-have-a-placebo-youll-feel-better/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>hypochondria</category><category>hypochondriac</category><category>Jennifer-Buettner</category><category>medicine</category><category>New-York-Times</category><category>Obecalp</category><category>pills</category><category>placebo</category><dc:creator>Susan Wagner</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-05-27T11:00:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Kathy Hilton's dream world</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/24/kathy-hiltons-dream-world/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/24/kathy-hiltons-dream-world/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/24/kathy-hiltons-dream-world/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/celeb-kids/" rel="tag">Celeb kids</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/celeb-parenting/" rel="tag">Celeb parenting</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/behaving-badly/" rel="tag">Behaving badly</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><img hspace="4" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/05/kathyhilton1sm.jpg" align="right" vspace="4" border="0" alt="" />Despite what some people may think, Paris Hilton did not drop onto this earth from Planet Rich Girl , drink in hand and ready to declare things 'hot'. No, she has a mother just like everyone else and that mother, Kathy Hilton, clearly loves her daughter very much. After a year of silence, Kathy is <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1021302/That-sex-video-The-sojourn-jail-So-Mrs-Hilton-ashamed-daughter.html" target="_blank">opening up about those terrible days</a> when her eldest daughter spent 45 days in the slammer for violating her DUI probation.<br /><br />There is nothing earth-shattering or even all that interesting about what Kathy Hilton has to say about Paris' jailhouse experience. Paris was scared, Paris cried, Paris had to wear a scratchy 'jail suit', etc. What she does reveal is an obvious superiority complex. Kathy tells the <em>Daily Mail</em>: "People say: 'Oh she's spoilt, she's this, she's that.' But, until you've walked in someone's shoes for many miles, don't make a judgment call. It's true that life's been comfortable for Paris and jail was probably tougher on her than it would be on, let's say, an everyday person."<br /><br />As one of those everyday people Kathy refers to, I feel like I should be offended by that last statement. As if your average drunk-driving housewife would find incarceration a piece of cake and not the punishment it was intended to be. But I am not offended because she's right. Paris <em>is</em> different. And in reading Kathy Hilton's words, I begin to understand why.<br /><br />%Gallery-23613%<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1021302/That-sex-video-The-sojourn-jail-So-Mrs-Hilton-ashamed-daughter.html>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/24/kathy-hiltons-dream-world/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1204279/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/24/kathy-hiltons-dream-world/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>celeb mothers</category><category>CelebMothers</category><category>celebrity mother</category><category>celebrity parents</category><category>CelebrityMother</category><category>CelebrityParents</category><category>daily mail</category><category>DailyMail</category><category>drunk driving</category><category>DrunkDriving</category><category>dui</category><category>kathy hilton</category><category>KathyHilton</category><category>paris hilton</category><category>ParisHilton</category><dc:creator>Sandy Maple</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-05-24T18:02:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Stores won't sell alcohol to parents with kids in tow</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/15/stores-wont-sell-alcohol-to-parents-with-kids-in-tow/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/15/stores-wont-sell-alcohol-to-parents-with-kids-in-tow/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/15/stores-wont-sell-alcohol-to-parents-with-kids-in-tow/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In the news</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="1" align="right" alt="" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/05/noalcoholsm.jpg" />Tesco, a large grocery chain in the UK, has angered and bewildered many parents with their <a target="_blank" href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1955793/Tesco-ban-on-alcohol-sales-to-parents.html">new rules regarding alcohol sales</a>. Managers have instructed their cashiers to refuse to sell alcohol to any adult who they suspect may be making the purchase for someone who is underage. Having been told to "err of the side of caution", many cashiers are turning away adult customers who happen to have a child standing next to them. That, of course, includes parents shopping with their children.<br /><br />It happened to Dominic Zenden. He wasn't allowed to purchase a six-pack of Budweiser because his 15-year-old daughter happened to be with him. "I was dumbfounded," he said. "There was absolutely no indication that my daughter would be drinking the alcohol - it was for me. But the woman told me that they don't sell alcohol to people who have children with them."<br /><br />39-year-old Debbie Bell had to return a case of Fosters and a bottle of cider to the shelf because her 18-year-old stepson couldn't produce proof of age. She said: "You can't do that just because somebody has kids with them.<br /><br />A spokesman for Tesco says, "I can understand the frustrations of the customer but I think that any reasonable parent would understand the problem and support our policy."<br /><br />If think that if Tesco finds any success at all in this new policy, it will likely be due to the fact that adults are going to go elsewhere to purchase alcohol. I know I would.<br /><br />
<div align="center"><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/ten-dumbest-laws-in-america/"><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="1" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/05/10-dumb-laws2.jpg"  alt="" /><br /></a></div><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1955793/Tesco-ban-on-alcohol-sales-to-parents.html>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/15/stores-wont-sell-alcohol-to-parents-with-kids-in-tow/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1196090/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/15/stores-wont-sell-alcohol-to-parents-with-kids-in-tow/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>alcohol</category><category>tesco</category><category>tesco alcohol sales</category><category>TescoAlcoholSales</category><category>underage drinking</category><category>UnderageDrinking</category><dc:creator>Sandy Maple</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-05-15T14:02:00+00:00</dc:date></item><item><title>Beer gets buckled in, kid rides the hump</title><link>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/14/beer-gets-buckled-in-kid-rides-the-hump/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/14/beer-gets-buckled-in-kid-rides-the-hump/</guid><comments>http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/14/beer-gets-buckled-in-kid-rides-the-hump/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/preschoolers/" rel="tag">Preschoolers</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/kids-5-7/" rel="tag">Kids 5-7</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/health-and-safety/" rel="tag">Health &amp; safety</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/weird-but-true/" rel="tag">Weird but true</a>, <a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/category/alcohol-and-drugs/" rel="tag">Alcohol &amp; drugs</a></p><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="1" align="right" src="http://www.blogsmithmedia.com/www.parentdish.com/media/2008/05/seatbeltsm2.jpg"  alt="" />In an extreme case of misplaced priorities, an Australian man has been fined for failing to safely secure a five-year-old child in his vehicle. It isn't that he didn't have seat belts in his car, it's just that there weren't any available after all the adults and a <a href="http://www.usatoday.com/news/offbeat/2008-05-13-australian-beer-fine_N.htm?loc=interstitialskip" target="_blank">30-can case of beer were buckled in</a>.<br /><br />Alice Springs constable Wayne Burnett was understandably  "shocked and appalled" when he pulled over the unregistered vehicle and discovered the backseat full of safely secured adults and beer and a child perched on the hump of the back seat floor.  "I haven't ever seen something like this before," he said. "This is the first time that the beer has taken priority over a child."<br /> <br />Oh, but it isn't.  Earlier this year, a woman in Florida <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2008/02/07/woman-buckles-up-beer-but-not-kid/" target="_blank">was arrested</a> for essentially the same thing.  She had a case of beer buckled in the front passenger seat and a sixteen-month-old child unrestrained the the back.<br /><br />As bad as this is, I suppose it could have been worse.  At least these children weren't made to ride in the trunk - where the beer should been in the first place.  And what is with all this buckling up of beer?  It has never occurred to me to strap in my purchases when driving home.  Do normal people do this?<h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/14/beer-gets-buckled-in-kid-rides-the-hump/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/forward/1194636/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://www.internetcross.comk.bloggingbaby.com/2008/05/14/beer-gets-buckled-in-kid-rides-the-hump/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a><br />]]></description><category>australian seat belt</category><category>AustralianSeatBelt</category><category>beer</category><category>buckle beer</category><category>BuckleBeer</category><category>seat belt beer</category><category>SeatBeltBeer</category><dc:creator>Sandy Maple</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-05-14T11:02:00+00:00</dc:date></item></channel></rss>